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DR. VYBHAV DERAJE






                                                                                                                                                                                     male counterparts to retire early, one cannot
                                                                                                                                                                                     escape the stark difference in quality of life
                                                                                                                                                                                     between the two sexes. So, I am not going to
                                                                                                                                                                                     pretend to argue whether life is tougher for
                                                                                                                                                                                     women after PRS residency or not. In fact,
                                                                                                                                                                                     I would go one step further to say that life in
                                                                                                                                                                                     general is tougher for women than men. But, is
                                                                                                                                                                                     it all bed of roses for men? Evidently not.

                                                                                                                                                                                     Before I present the men’s perspective, it is
                                                                                                                                                                                     important to establish whether I am relatable
                                                                                                                                                                                     enough to a normal plastic surgeon who has
                             Are family and domestic responsibilities, shared equally in 2019?                                                                                       recently completed his/her training or not. I
                                                                                                                                                                                     have been married for 8 years now. Have no
                                                                                                                                                                                     children, or more aptly, have opted not to have
                                                              Hopefully, with better support system                                                                                  children during training, fellowships and initial
                                                              at home and a healthy,  supportive work                                                                                part of my practice. Me and my other half have
                                                              environment  things  will  get  better.  We                                                                            lived for more than 50% of our married life in
                                                              need people for women, not just women                                                                                  different cities, sometimes different countries
                                                              for women. Lot of strong men and women                                                                                 and even different continents and time zones.
                                                              need to realize that just because they made                                                                            We are also a nuclear family. So, it is not hard
 Lorem ipsum dolor sit                                        it without help, doesn’t mean everyone’s                                                                               to imagine and judge whether this period has
                                                              journey will be smooth.
                                                                                                                                                                                     been tough for the both of us or not!
 amet, consetetuer adip                                       As men and women, we are complimentary                                                                                 PROBLEM STATEMENT

 kiscing elit, sed diam                                       and not antagonistic. Lord Shiva got it back                                                                           What  exactly  makes  this  phase  tough?  If  one
                                                              then, how about we understand it in 2020?
 nonummnibh euismod                                           Maybe in 2030 such debates would not be                            Life is tougher for women after Plastic             takes a deep dive into the matter, one realizes
                                                                                                                                 Surgery residency  : myth or reality?
                                                              needed! While I feel that the title is a reality,
                                                                                                                                                                                     that the “Rat Race” is tough. What is this rat race
 tincidunt ut laoreet dolo.                                   I do too believe that just as myths can be                         When I was invited to debate on this topic          for? And does gender play a role in winning the
                                                              shattered, reality can be changed too!
                                                                                                                                                                                     rat race?
                                                                                                                                 in a plastic surgery conference recently, I
                                                                                                                                 was      initially  flattered.  That  feeling  quickly   THE POPULAR RAT RACE - The rat race
                                                                                                                                 evaporated when I was confronted with the           that everyone wants to participate in:
                                                                                                                                 reality. According to a study conducted in
                    Complimentary, Not Antagonistic
                                                                                                                                 North America, female plastic surgeons are          1.  To become a ‘Consultant’
                                                                                                                                 significantly  more  likely  to  be  unmarried,  to   2.  Number of publications
                                                                                                                                 postpone having children or be childless and        3.  To be invited as speakers in conferences
                                                                                                                                 have a lower income than their male colleagues
                                                       “                                                                         Although the study further went on to say that
                                                                                                                                                                                     4.  To secure that elusive ‘Government job’
                                                                                                                                 despite similar hours and practice profile.
                                                                                                                                                                                     5.  To become a successful entrepreneur
                                                                                                                                 female plastic surgeons have similar career
                                                                                                                                 satisfaction and are no more likely than their


                                                             Are Family & Domestic




                                                             Equally in 2019?
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