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V O L 5  2020  I S S U E


                                                              •   What about the dreams of fellowship/                            It is perhaps because lot of them take a backseat and never reach the top because of their do-
           The whole point is that the strong, both men           subsequent subspeciality training? The                          mestic responsibilities, childcare and the glass ceiling. Ultimately, the lack of time and devotion
           and  women,  have  a  choice  to  make  :  we  can     biological clock is in constant conflict with                   towards excellence comes in the way and they end choosing professional roles demanding less
           bury our head in the sand and ignore the               the career graph and unfortunately neither                      time and commitment. We don’t have to look far for examples. I could find just four women in
           problem or we can establish the problem and            fertility nor career waits. Most of us have                     the list of APSI (Association of Plastic Surgeons of India) Presidents’ list since 1975!
           find solutions. Here is why I feel that the title      postponed marriage and the motherhood
           assertion is a reality, not a mere myth!               dream for so long that lots of women end
                                                                  up postponing/or forego further training.












                                                                                                                                           Less Recognition, Less Awards,                  Fighting the leaky Academic Pipeline
                    A choice to make for the strong                 Fellowships? Subspeciality Training?                                         Lesser Leadership
                         Men & Women Both
                                                              •   It is nobody’s fault but perhaps women’s                        •   There is a serious problem in accepting
           •   When I started looking for a job, fresh            own that they often aren’t too comfortable                          women leadership by both men and
               out of residency, my interview didn’t just         discussing money. Perhaps a lot of women                            women.  A  strict,  aggressive,  firm  and
               include questions about my experience              have a tendency to undervalue themselves                            sometimes eccentric male boss is accepted
               and competence, but some tangentially              and end up having a problem in negotiating                          in a rather matter of fact manner. But we
               different ones too. Whether I have kids or         hard for the salary they deserve.                                   do have a problem associating these traits
               not?  (NO?  Wow!  My mother  is unhappy,                                                                               with women because in our minds these
               employers extremely happy). Then there         •   Ah! Being confused with and addressed                               traits are masculine. Hence the aggressive
               are doubts if I will attend night calls or not,    as nurses forever! As a young boss of your                          women bosses are branded emotional and
               whether I  am  tough  enough  to handle            team, there always is a problem of being                            sometimes frustrated!
               rowdy patient attendants or not. Some of           identified as the in-charge. Sometimes the
               these questions voiced, some just looming          patients could be paying more attention to                                                                                  Oh no! The surgeon is pregnant!
               there like invisible grey clouds!                  an elderly dresser in your team!
                                                                                                                                                                                     •   The  other  elephant  in  the  room  :  we  are
                                                              •   Then there is the general bias in                                                                                      not comfortable talking about it but it isn’t
                                                                  perception of women surgeons! Surgery                                                                                  possible not to address sexual harassment
                                                                  has traditionally been a male dominated                                                                                as unfortunately it does exist. It is more
                                                                  field  and  often  associated  with  power.                                                                            often implicit than explicit. Most of the
                                                                  Unfortunately many think that masculinity                                                                              times your sensibilities as a surgeon are in
                                                                  and power are synonymous!                                                                                              direct conflict with those as a woman. As a
                                                                                                                                                                                         surgeon you never want to come across as
                                                              •   As we are people of science, I did go through                                                                          weak or a victim and as a women you end
                                                                  research  that presents substantial evidence                        Difficulty in accepting female leadership!         up bearing the hostile environment!
                                                                  to suggest that women are presented with
                                                                  lesser awards, lesser honours and overall                       •   The mini elephants in the room : babies!       •   Are family and domestic roles shared
                                                                  less recognition. That they are seen less in                        What is a good time to have a child? A)            equally in 2020? No matter how many
                       Being hired for the Job!                   leadership roles compared to men could                              During residency when your colleagues              domestic helps you hire, as a woman you
                                                                  be due to implicit bias, but it has more                            are  more  often  than  not,  unhappy  about       can  never  completely  escape  the  role  of  a
           •   Lot of us have doctors for spouses and there       to do with the ‘leaky academic pipeline’.                           the situation because it obviously burdens         homemaker (most times one doesn’t wish
               is always the question of who becomes              The number of women joining  surgical                               them more? B) Or after residency, when             to also). As a result, you are sometimes torn
               the  trailing spouse? Both genders  do at          residency is increasing and they make up                            you  are  fighting  to  carve  a  niche  for       between home and work.
               different times, I suppose, but I do feel          for a good number of the total residents,                           yourselves in the outside world? No one at
               when  it  comes  to  settling  down  at  the       yet when it comes to people reaching the                            work is too happy with your happy news!
               final destination, it is more often than not:      top positions, we see very few women.                               It might help to realize that a pregnant
               husband’s prerogative/his hometown as a                                                                                woman is carrying a child for a man and a
               natural choice.                                                                                                        woman so it is not just a women’s issue, but
                                                                                                                                      everyone’s issue!
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