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V O L 5  2020  I S S U E


 •   What about the dreams of fellowship/  It is perhaps because lot of them take a backseat and never reach the top because of their do-
 The whole point is that the strong, both men   subsequent subspeciality training? The   mestic responsibilities, childcare and the glass ceiling. Ultimately, the lack of time and devotion
 and  women,  have  a  choice  to  make  :  we  can   biological clock is in constant conflict with   towards excellence comes in the way and they end choosing professional roles demanding less
 bury our head in the sand and ignore the   the career graph and unfortunately neither   time and commitment. We don’t have to look far for examples. I could find just four women in
 problem or we can establish the problem and   fertility nor career waits. Most of us have   the list of APSI (Association of Plastic Surgeons of India) Presidents’ list since 1975!
 find solutions. Here is why I feel that the title   postponed marriage and the motherhood
 assertion is a reality, not a mere myth!  dream for so long that lots of women end
 up postponing/or forego further training.












                    Less Recognition, Less Awards,                  Fighting the leaky Academic Pipeline
 A choice to make for the strong   Fellowships? Subspeciality Training?  Lesser Leadership
 Men & Women Both
 •   It is nobody’s fault but perhaps women’s   •   There is a serious problem in accepting
 •   When I started looking for a job, fresh   own that they often aren’t too comfortable   women leadership by both men and
 out of residency, my interview didn’t just   discussing money. Perhaps a lot of women   women.  A  strict,  aggressive,  firm  and
 include questions about my experience   have a tendency to undervalue themselves   sometimes eccentric male boss is accepted
 and competence, but some tangentially   and end up having a problem in negotiating   in a rather matter of fact manner. But we
 different ones too. Whether I have kids or   hard for the salary they deserve.  do have a problem associating these traits
 not?  (NO?  Wow!  My mother  is unhappy,   with women because in our minds these
 employers extremely happy). Then there   •   Ah! Being confused with and addressed   traits are masculine. Hence the aggressive
 are doubts if I will attend night calls or not,   as nurses forever! As a young boss of your   women bosses are branded emotional and
 whether I  am  tough  enough  to handle   team, there always is a problem of being   sometimes frustrated!
 rowdy patient attendants or not. Some of   identified as the in-charge. Sometimes the
 these questions voiced, some just looming   patients could be paying more attention to   Oh no! The surgeon is pregnant!
 there like invisible grey clouds!  an elderly dresser in your team!
                                                              •   The  other  elephant  in  the  room  :  we  are
 •   Then there is the general bias in                            not comfortable talking about it but it isn’t
 perception of women surgeons! Surgery                            possible not to address sexual harassment
 has traditionally been a male dominated                          as unfortunately it does exist. It is more
 field  and  often  associated  with  power.                      often implicit than explicit. Most of the
 Unfortunately many think that masculinity                        times your sensibilities as a surgeon are in
 and power are synonymous!                                        direct conflict with those as a woman. As a
                                                                  surgeon you never want to come across as
 •   As we are people of science, I did go through                weak or a victim and as a women you end
 research  that presents substantial evidence   Difficulty in accepting female leadership!   up bearing the hostile environment!
 to suggest that women are presented with
 lesser awards, lesser honours and overall   •   The mini elephants in the room : babies!   •   Are family and domestic roles shared
 less recognition. That they are seen less in   What is a good time to have a child? A)   equally in 2020? No matter how many
 Being hired for the Job!  leadership roles compared to men could   During residency when your colleagues   domestic helps you hire, as a woman you
 be due to implicit bias, but it has more   are  more  often  than  not,  unhappy  about   can  never  completely  escape  the  role  of  a
 •   Lot of us have doctors for spouses and there   to do with the ‘leaky academic pipeline’.   the situation because it obviously burdens   homemaker (most times one doesn’t wish
 is always the question of who becomes   The number of women joining  surgical   them more? B) Or after residency, when   to also). As a result, you are sometimes torn
 the  trailing spouse? Both genders  do at   residency is increasing and they make up   you  are  fighting  to  carve  a  niche  for   between home and work.
 different times, I suppose, but I do feel   for a good number of the total residents,   yourselves in the outside world? No one at
 when  it  comes  to  settling  down  at  the   yet when it comes to people reaching the   work is too happy with your happy news!
 final destination, it is more often than not:   top positions, we see very few women.  It might help to realize that a pregnant
 husband’s prerogative/his hometown as a   woman is carrying a child for a man and a
 natural choice.  woman so it is not just a women’s issue, but
               everyone’s issue!
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